The human touch
First, Well done Ida!..great presentation.
As Lin mentioned, true, you have made your point. In your VC, you felt like you belonged. You have been interacting with them regularly, getting information as well as support and in return they gave you the sense of belonging, but I wonder if you will go back to that VC after your pregnancy or after you go back to your family or after they are here to support you. will you still need them? If the answer is a YES, then I wonder for how long. If the answer is NO, I guess it is one of the failures of a VC again, not being able to sustain their audience or users.
Anyways, I believe it is possible to have real human feelings when in a V.community. For instance, my VC (which is on msn;)) is composed of people I know in a physical sense as well. Among them are my family, friends, colleagues and classmates from Curtin. I need not create a fakester to communicate with them. There is a pre-existing profile already created, which inturn help them to understand and know me at different levels. We could pick up a conversation couple of days later and still know what we are talking about. When we want a laugh, we use the LOLs, each of us knows what we are laughing about and understands the joke. And when someone is upset, all of us empathise with him/her knowing very well that we mean it.
The best part about belonging to a VC is that no matter where you are in the world, as long as internet access is available, we are in touch. We always keep coming back.
